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Exploring Our Children’s Potentials

14 July 2022 – 3:34 pm |

“Thanks” to today’s gadgets, more and more kids tend to say, “I don’t know what I’m good at. I don’t know what I like. I’m not interested in anything actually.” (But somehow they are interested …

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Making : Queen Anya

19 July 2007 | Posted in: Crafts & Activity Ideas for Kids | No Comment

Last week, I introduced the Bible character, Esther, to Anya. Basically I emphasised to her how Queen Esther helped a lot of people and how when she knew about the truth, she went and told the King about the truth.

A whole lot more values can be learned from her actually. I just shared with Anya the simplified version. For now.

Anyway.

Since we’re learning about Queen Esther, we made a crown and Anya then became ‘Queen Anya’!

What we used:
>> Green paper carton
>> Glue, scissors
>> Coloured styrofoams (the ones Anya made 2 weeks ago)

I cut out the green paper carton, put it on Anya’s head to make sure it fits before glueing the two ends and cutting the top, making it all spiky.

I then cut the styrofoams into smaller bits. They’re supposed to be the crown’s ‘jewels’, you see. Hehe.

Anya did all the glueing and pasting.

She sure was a happy little Queen.

AND, it made our learning so much fun and more easily ‘remembered’ too!

Bronchiolitis & Runny nose : Tips from our doctor

17 July 2007 | Posted in: Food & Health | No Comment

Taking advantage of my still-fresh-but-usually-not-for-long-memory, here are some useful tips and advice I got from the doctor:

On bronchiolitis:

>> A very common infection amongst young children (usually less than 2 years old)

>> Caused by viruses that affect breathing airways (small kids’ tiny airways get blocked easier)

>> It begins with a cold, leading to cough and breathlessness. Usually affects feeding and sleep

I do notice Vai somehow ate ‘less’ than usual. He woke up frequently when napping and at night too! AND wanted to be breastfed to get back to sleep. The bad news is, he still continues with this. Till now! (read: Mommy gets very little sleep at night)

Other tips:

>> It’s better to use nose drops than nasal aspirators

>> Nose drops shouldn’t be used for more than 5 days though (I was prescribed with ‘Iliadin by Merck‘)

>> Nasal aspirators, when necessary, should only be used once or twice a day because it may ‘damage’ the baby’s still delicate nasal tissue.

>> When your baby breathes and you can ‘hear’ the noise from just being ‘near’ the baby, go and see your doctor.

Hope the info helps!

Enjoying a quick nap

16 July 2007 | Posted in: Photography | No Comment

… on Daddy’s studio sofa.

Vai and his Bronchiolitis

16 July 2007 | Posted in: Daily, Food & Health | No Comment

You know I used to think that someone must’ve spelled the word wrongly somewhere, since I’ve only heard of the term ‘Bronchitis‘ but not ‘Bronchiolitis‘.

It was only when Anya came down with it – some two years ago I think – that I found out more about this condition that affects small children’s respiratory tract.

Now.

Last night, we noticed how Vai’s breathing got a bit ‘noisy’ and how his phlegmy cough didn’t seem to get better.

And since it’s been a week, we took him to KK Hospital to get him double checked.

The verdict. The doctor told us that Vai has bronchiolitis and because he can’t breathe as comfortably as usual, his oxygen level is rather ‘low’ (not seriously low, but it’s on the borderline).

And so we spent some four hours in the hospital today.

Vai had to inhale some ‘gas’ (nebuliser, then ventolin) to open up his breathing airways. The doctor then monitored his progress periodically to see any improvements on his oxygen level.

Vai being still so young naturally REFUSED to wear (or even get near) the mask. Poor kid. Wilson and I had to really hold on to him (comforting him as much as we can as well) while he wriggled and struggled with all his might, screaming and crying throughout.

*sigh*

After three rounds and a few checks, his condition improved. Which means there’s no need for him to stay overnight at the hospital!

Oh how we thank God for this!

Vai’s now better and is still active as usual (apart from him constantly wet nostrils and occasional phlegmy coughs, one wouldn’t think he’s actually not feeling that well).

And oh, he still throws up about three times a day, on average. Although this means we have to clean up the mess all the time, we’re somewhat glad that it means the phlegm is out and Vai can at least feel a bit relieved and breathe better.

Anyway.

I’ll write more on Brochiolitis and share with you some other useful info I got from the doctor.

Soon.

Sunday’s Food for Thought – Living in the presence of God

15 July 2007 | Posted in: Inspirational | No Comment

Have we been living and doing things in order to please others?

We should live in the presence of God. Doing things to please Him. Doing things as if He will inspect the quality of our work later on.

This way, even in the presence of no one else, we will produce, work and give our very best.

In everything.

Work at everything you do with all your heart.
Work as if you were working for the Lord,
not for human masters.
Colossians 3:23

NDP Show by the River

14 July 2007 | Posted in: Crafts & Activity Ideas for Kids | No Comment

Enjoyed a cosy late Saturday afternoon by the Singapore River, watching the National Day Parade‘s rehearsal.

Helicopters. Cannons. Huge jelly-fish-like balloons. Jets. Fireworks.

Loud and deafening.

Nice weather.

Huge crowd.


Down with cough and runny nose

13 July 2007 | Posted in: Daily, Food & Health | No Comment

The kids are down with phlegmy cough and runny nose. And it’s been going on for a week.

And I guess it’s tougher on Vai since he still doesn’t know how to blow his nose or cough on purpose to get the phlegm out of his throat.

Poor kid. I can often hear the ‘phlegm-stuck-on-the-throat-sound’ when he breathes. Must’ve felt really uncomfortable.

As for me. Well, I’ve been busier than usual.

Apart from her occasional demands for ‘unreasonable’ things, Anya’s been quite okay. It’s actually Vai who needs more tender loving care. He wakes up more often at night. He cries and wants to be carried more frequently. He throws up (the only natural way he can ‘clear’ his throat). He fusses so much too during mealtimes.

And oh, the process of removing the mucus from his nostrils requires SO much energy from both of us.

I’d be ‘locking him down’ with my arms, hands and leg (at the same time, using the nasal aspirator on him), while he kicks, screams and cries his lungs out.

Ah. I don’t blame him for feeling so scared (or for making me look like a professional wrestler). He really must’ve felt like I’m trying to suck his brain out or something.

Anyway. Really hope the kids are well again soon.

PS: Personally I prefer this type of nasal aspirator, mainly because we can control the suction ourselves. And, since the part that goes into the nose is shaped like an ‘onion’, it doesn’t go deep into the nose too (less chance of scraping the inside of the baby’s nose).

Parenting : How Gadget Play in Children Starts to become an Issue

13 November 2013 | Posted in: Parenting | 7 Comments

Someone once shared with me this thought:
Playing, holding and placing actual 3D puzzle pieces stimulates a child cognitively and mentally, which unfortunately CANNOT be done through playing puzzles across the flat screen of a gadget.
And …

Handling Terrible Two Tantrums

25 May 2013 | Posted in: Parenting | 5 Comments

 
Brie is now 2 years old.
And I’m treasuring this.
She’s cuddly and loves to cuddle and give us all a big hug.
She’s absorbing her world so fast.
She has SO much to say, but she still speaks …

Anya & Vai : 20 months

20 April 2008 | Posted in: Daily, Parenting | No Comment

That was how Anya looked like when she’s 20 months old.
And looking back at how she was at that age, and how Vai is right now, I can list down more of their differences than …

Reality of Approaching FORTY!

13 January 2015 | Posted in: Daily, Marriage & Relationships | No Comment

 

No, I don’t mind people knowing my real age.
I’m going to be 39 this year.
Seriously though, I do feel the number ’39’ to be … old! Haha.
Perhaps, it’s because I don’t ‘feel old’?
When I was …

Marriage: Unity & Uniformity

13 October 2019 | Posted in: Inspirational, Marriage & Relationships | No Comment

 
Unity in marriage is not the result of uniformity. You will never be the same as your spouse. God has designed you to be different from your spouse.
Unity is the result of how husband and …

Sunday’s Food for Thought – Spouse’s strengths and weaknesses

28 October 2007 | Posted in: Inspirational, Marriage & Relationships | No Comment
Sunday’s Food for Thought – Spouse’s strengths and weaknesses

Many people enter marriage with idealistic thoughts of how a marriage ‘should be’.
That there’ll be hardly any arguments. That all exchanged words will always be romantic and sweet. That the home will always be neat …

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