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Exploring Our Children’s Potentials

14 July 2022 – 3:34 pm |

“Thanks” to today’s gadgets, more and more kids tend to say, “I don’t know what I’m good at. I don’t know what I like. I’m not interested in anything actually.” (But somehow they are interested …

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Covid-19 Days: Back to Online School

26 January 2022 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

These days, being able to physically go to school is a treasure.

I don’t know how it is with your kids, but mine look forward to attending school physically, meeting friends in person, and listening to teachers who actually stand in front of them.



This photo was taken earlier today.

Tomorrow all three of them are back to online learning.

Hope things get better soon.

Exploring: Paniisan Hill, Sentul

Saturday spent amidst lots of green.

Making new friends, appreciating nature and the great outdoors.

14 km trek.

Mud. Rain. Cool breeze. Awesome view.

♥️

Have Our Children Been Prepared to Live in the World?

19 January 2022 | Posted in: Inspirational, Parenting | No Comment

I look at my 3 kids and I feel time flies real fast.

(The eldest turns 18 in less than 2 months!)

Anyway, just the other day, I found my old notes from attending a parenting seminar some years ago.

Am grateful for the reminders.

Here are some of them:

🎈 Our children are entrusted into our hands for a short while, for us to raise and teach according to their Redeemer’s plans and will. They are not like paintings or antiques, which we put on display to gain people’s attention and compliments.

🎈Children are like arrows (Psalm 127), and parents will need to release their arrows one day. The question is, have they been prepared to live in the world and to be away from us?

🎈Raising children is a spiritual warfare. Whether or not our children care about spiritual matters depends a lot on whether their parents introduce them since they’re little.



I often say to my kids, “I don’t know how much time I still have with you. No one knows when we’ll leave the world. But as long as you are still with us, Mommy and Daddy will teach you, as much as possible, things which you need to know and learn, to live in the world without us. You may not like it when we rebuke / tell you off / ask you to stop doing something which we believe is not good for you. Dealing with your resistance / talkbacks are emotionally exhausting, too. But the way I see it, it’s like preparing each of you to go to war, we need to equip and train you as best as we can, while we still can, before you actually leave home. We do what we need to do, because we love you and we are accountable to God to raise you during the limited time we have with you.”



I know I am still learning along the way.

May God help every parent, and give us the wisdom, mercy and patience needed daily.

Brie: A 10.5yo Emcee

18 January 2022 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

The youngest in the family is now 10.5 years old.

Time flies, huh!

And, she’s one of the four emcees at her school’s virtual concert.

If you ask me, I feel grateful for the opportunity given to her, where she can learn and exercise her public speaking skills.



In these photos, she’s wearing some traditional costumes that I managed to put together from whatever that we have at home, hehe.

(The scarf is called “ulos”, a school principal presented it to Wilson when he was in North Sumatra, right after his ministry to students. Honoured!)

Covid-19 Days: Off to School. Physically.

17 January 2022 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

Off to school, physically, all three of them, for the first time since March 2020!

Primary. Junior High. Senior High.

Learn, have fun, and make memories.

♥️

Brie: 2nd Covid-19 Vaccination

13 January 2022 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

2nd shot done. Sinovac.

♥️

Grateful to see how vaccination drive for 6-11yo goes well in Indonesia.

Soon it begin its 3rd vaccination drive for all, for free 🙏🏻

These Moments: Cousins. Now and Then.

9 January 2022 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

[‘These moments’: An attempt to capture moments within the week. No words. Simple. Special. Moments I wish to treasure and remember.]

Exploring: Kuningan and Lembang, West Java

8 January 2022 | Posted in: Places to Visit, Video | No Comment

Blessed to still be able to explore and enjoy nature and the outdoors together ♥️

Mountains. Paddyfields. Valleys. Waterfalls. Tea plantations.

Trust and Communication

21 January 2020 | Posted in: Inspirational, Marriage & Relationships, Parenting | No Comment

 
In marriage (and all relationships, including parent-child relationships), TRUST is needed.
When trust is absent, all attempts to build communication and relation most likely will fail.
Build that trust over time.
And beware, it takes years to build …

Parenting : Building That Parent-Child Relationship

26 November 2012 | Posted in: Inspirational, Parenting | 2 Comments

[A photo-shoot we did with Jipaban.com in November last year!]

Whenever my kids give me a hard time, I usually tell myself how it’ll most likely be more complicated and emotionally draining when they are teenagers.
Because, …

What’s happened?

11 October 2005 | Posted in: Food & Health, Parenting | No Comment

Anya’s been acting all weird and cranky lately. And I suspect it’s got something to do with her MMR vaccination 2 weeks ago.
After she had the jab, we were told that within 7-10 days after …

Marriage: Making Time for the One You Love

7 July 2010 | Posted in: Marriage & Relationships | 3 Comments

Busyness.
It seems to be the ‘situation’ everyone faces today. Even amongst married couples.
But. It IS the reality, isn’t it?
We’re all busy with something, every day. And during most of our ‘waking hours’.
With kids. With work. …

Better Today: 17 Years Together

7 July 2018 | Posted in: Marriage & Relationships | No Comment

I guess we are now closer to ‘reality’ than 17 years ago.
On the left:
We’re well-dressed, in an air-conditioned studio, standing by a piano, and asked to look out a window (with no view, haha).
Things ‘had …

Marriage: Kinda Like Our Rafting Experience

10 January 2020 | Posted in: Marriage & Relationships | No Comment

 
I guess this is kinda an image of our marriage:
Goes through rough seas every now and then.
Struggling to always stay together while smiling at the storm.
With the support of friends who share our boat
While praying …

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