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Exploring Our Children’s Potentials

14 July 2022 – 3:34 pm |

“Thanks” to today’s gadgets, more and more kids tend to say, “I don’t know what I’m good at. I don’t know what I like. I’m not interested in anything actually.” (But somehow they are interested …

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Friends and Pythons

26 December 2021 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

Awesome mix of friends, catching up, and ball pythons (their friendly, unusual pets) ♥️

(Btw, they don’t bite and are not poisonous, and that’s why I dare holding them lah, haha)

These Moments: Christmas with Hidayat Family

25 December 2021 | Posted in: Daily, Photography | No Comment

[‘These moments’: An attempt to capture moments within the week. No words. Simple. Special. Moments I wish to treasure and remember.]

Blessed Christmas 2021

25 December 2021 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

Have a blessed Christmas, everyone.

And may the new year be filled with experiences that encourage us to be more grateful to God, and a blessing to others even more 🙏🏻♥️

Face the Fear and Conquer It

23 December 2021 | Posted in: Inspirational, Parenting, Video | No Comment

We checked out the Bike Park at BSD Xtreme Park yesterday.

When we got there, our 10yo Brie rode a rented BMX bike, and as soon as she sat on it, she said the handle was too far (her first time riding a BMX), and it was hard to ride the bike. I told her to give it a try anyway.

(Yes, she can ride a bike, but she doesn’t get much practice here in Jakarta)

The mistake was, we didn’t see the “smaller track” on the side, and so Brie went and tried going up a “hill”, and she stopped midway.

She got off, and stayed there for about 2 minutes.

When she came to me, she was sobbing.

Hugging and comforting her, I asked what happened, and she said she felt she’s about to fall and it was scary.

She also said how she couldn’t keep her hands steady, and it felt like she’s sometimes wobbling.

I encouraged her to go on the “flat track”, then try the smaller track on the side.

Thanks to her friend, Brie also exchanged her BMX bike with his. She felt more comfortable with his bike.

After going off and cycling away, some 30 minutes or so later she smiled and said, “I can do it!”

She also tried going over the high hill that she’s very afraid of in the beginning, and succeeded. She went over the track a few times.

“I knew you could do it, and what you did well was you did not stop when it got scary and frustrating. You cried but you didn’t stop trying, Brie!”, I gave her a proud look and smiled.

On our way home, I asked how she felt (because she cried twice in the beginning).

She told us: “When I first got on the bike, somehow there’s this voice in my head that said, “I can’t do it. I can’t do it. I can’t do it.” I really felt I was about to fall backwards or forward and fall off the bike. It was terrifying. Then I fixed my self talk. I told myself, “I can do it. I can do it. I can do it.” and I tried the smaller hills on the side. It was not easy, because I still wobbled and couldn’t steer the bike well. But after trying again and again, I could do it!”

I am so grateful for the experience we all had at the Bike Park.

It was our firsts on such a bike track, and what’s wonderful about it is we got to see how our kids learned to face their fears when they entered an uncomfortable zone.

To us, how they responded mattered a lot, and I am glad that Brie (who had the biggest fear till she cried) managed to find a way out and did not give up.

“Brie, when you face any difficulties in life, remember to not give up, just like what you did earlier on the track”, I said.

Thanking God for this experience.

These Moments: Happiness in Simple Things

19 December 2021 | Posted in: Daily, Photography | No Comment

[‘These moments’: An attempt to capture moments within the week. No words. Simple. Special. Moments I wish to treasure and remember.]

Chameleons as Pets, Anyone?

18 December 2021 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

A much easier pet to care for, compared to dogs, they say.

Chameleons do not make any noise. They are not smelly, and at this size, they eat about 3 crickets/day.

They can live up to 8 years.

This is a Panther Chameleon, btw.

Starts from Rp 8.000.000 (8 million rupiah).

Keen? 😁

Personally, I often pity such “beautiful” creatures.

I mean, animals born with beautiful colours/patterns are often taken away from their natural habitats and sold as pets.

Beautiful birds are captured, and then caged or chained.

They can no longer fly freely.

As a kid, I used to have pet birds, 4-5 birds. They were caged.

When they died, one by one, I remember thinking how birds really should NOT be kept in cages (well, unless I have an aviary and they can fly around freely, but still within a limited space at home, hehe).

Anyway.

I do hope, before getting a pet, whatever it may be, everyone really considers:
– the time and energy needed to care for it
– the “place” where the pet will be kept, whatever creature it is
– equipping self with more knowledge on how to care for the pet properly

Anything else you may want to add to the list?

Brie: Covid-19 Vaccination

16 December 2021 | Posted in: Daily | No Comment

Brie’s first Covid-19 vaccine!

Sinovac vaccines for 6-11yo available now in Jakarta 🙏🏻

Three Kids and No Domestic Helper is …

20 January 2012 | Posted in: Daily, Parenting | 12 Comments

[Laundry-folding time]

… possible.
As long as the little ones are trained, since very young, to be involved – in however small ways – and to help out around the house, I say.
(Of course our home is …

When difficult moments take place

24 April 2008 | Posted in: Daily, Parenting | No Comment

One interesting thing about being a fulltime mom is that you get to see a lot of (all, if they haven’t started school) their day-to-day ups and downs. Their sweet and not-so-sweet daily episodes.
And as …

Parenting : In PLAY, children LEARN

28 November 2009 | Posted in: Parenting | 2 Comments

Kids LOVE to play.
All kids do.
But do we adults see ‘play’ as beneficial and necessary for the children’s development?
The reality is, some teachers and parents (ie. adults in general) do see ‘learning’ and ‘playing’ as …

Yes, Kids. Daddy Loves You.

 
Kids,
You may read this years or decades from today, but I feel I need to write about this for you.
Did you know that Daddy loves you?
Did you know that when you were all little, and …

Marriage : before and after

17 March 2008 | Posted in: Marriage & Relationships | No Comment

Someone once said that once you’ve decided the person with whom you’ll spend the rest of your life with, basically there’s ‘no turning back’.
If we’ve made a ‘bad decision’, then we (unfortunately) will live with …

Thoughts : Married to Our Spouse, Not to Our Children

6 June 2013 | Posted in: Inspirational, Marriage & Relationships | No Comment

When we become parents, the reality is, children will demand a lot of our time and energy.
Breastfeeding / bottle-feeding them, preparation of meals, feeding, bathing and playtime, changing of diapers, dealing with tantrums and behaviours.
Not …

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